FASHION

99 problems, a good outfit ain’t 1!

Read the following story (I hope you do) or scroll down to outfit pictures:

Story was told of a pastor who told everyone in his congregation to pen down all their problems in life and drop the sheets of paper at the altar.

Boy! Did they write and write and write and laid everything at the foot of the cross – altar – the aim was to let go and let God takeover.

In a twist of things and to teach them gratitude, he then asked them to come back to the altar and pick any random sheet (knowing it would be impossible to pick the exact same one they dropped). So everyone picked someone Else’s.

He then urged them to open the sheets and read the problems they had in their hands. Shouts of exclamations filled the chapel as they all realized what other people were facing seemed a million times worse than what they themselves were going through.

“I’ll take mine back” they all started saying, I can’t deal with these things I’m reading. The pastor had a hearty laugh knowing no further sermon was needed on gratitude as he asked them to all drop back the sheets at the altar.

You see, while life isn’t perfect, and problems may come and go, you have to learn to let go and let God and as difficult as it is to be grateful in the midst of problems, you have to train yourself to be.

My life changed when I started thanking God for my problems and what He was trying to teach me through them and when I started giving out literally the last money and things on me at my poorest and my most broke times.

In an attempt to relate this story to my fashion – hope this works –

1. I’ll say life isn’t perfect but your outfit can be.

2. 99 problems but a good outfit isn’t one

Duh!

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Told you a good outfit makes you have a good laugh and feel good 🙂

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Wow! Something must really be funny yo!

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But don’t ask me what (tongue out)

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I’ll just adjust my crown and keep moving

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Loved this outfit so much I had to restyle it:

Dress: Fauziat

Hair: https://www.instagram.com/avasachair/

Hair: @avasacHair on Instagram

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Habits every entrepreneur MUST practise

 

  1. Make use of your most productive time of the day.

Whatever yours may be, I always advocate for getting up earlier in the day when there are little to no distractions and doing something that develops you. It could be reading books, researching, meditating, praying or even exercising (even if you are not a morning person). Just do anything to ensure your day is started right and you are in a good frame of mind.

People have different times of the day when they are able to maximise their thought processes. Some people are morning people and others are not. Identify yours and use it ideally to brainstorm and document your ideas.

2. Read books.

This is one habit that is essential for personal development. To be a successful entrepreneur you need to set out time study and read books. Get your hands on that will develop you as a person and your trade. Never stop seeking knowledge and never stop learning. Set a target for each week to read at least a chapter or two per day, gather the books you need to read that month and keep them in a visible place to remind you of your daily target. If you don’t like to read hardcopies, look out for audiobooks. Just read, read, read.

3. Network.

Maintain a good network and grow it, I always say your network determines your net worth. Keep the right set of people around you; people with whom you feel comfortable sharing your goals and dreams. Network with people you can also partner with. Connect with like-minded individuals who tell you your dreams are too small. Connect with those that will motivate you when things are not looking up.

4. Have mentors.

Identify someone who really challenges you to do better, act better and be better. I have 2 mentors, one who mentors me in my industry and I really look up to for his excellent leadership qualities and technical skills, who knows me personally and believes in me, gives me great advice and always encourages me. And my second mentor (T.D. Jakes) whom I have never met but I look up to him and admire him so much, read his books, watch his videos and follow him on social media. I personally think he is one of the wisest people around. I still have a lot more people I admire and look up to, but those are the two who mentor me. Having people mentor you is really important for you and your trade, I think it is important for every entrepreneur to have these two type of mentors at the least. They give you a direction, coach you, are honest with you, help identify your strengths and help with your personal development.

5. Be disciplined.

Start by being disciplined in any aspect of your life – it could be as simple as training yourself to go to the gym each morning – and make no excuses for yourself, from that one aspect, you can translate that to other areas of your life.

The importance of being a disciplined individual cannot be over-emphasized. When you are self-disciplined, you are able to be much more diligent, effective and successful. This will inadvertently tell on your trade and the way you do things. Be committed to what you do and have zero-tolerance for indiscipline which leads to mediocrity. Also be disciplined with your time and time management. It irks me when people use the term ‘African Time’ and expect it to be generally accepted, this leads to a culture of indiscipline.

6. Take risks.

As an entrepreneur, you will probably be turned down on some opportunities, don’t get put off by hearing ‘No’, all you need to do is keep pushing on. When your ‘light bulb’ idea gets turned down in some places., remember the light bulb (LOL).

Every entrepreneur is a risk-taker. Sometime calculated, sometimes not even calculated, sometimes we just go with our gut-feeling (I try to back mine up by research though) I once read an article on Mark Zuckerberg and he said he didn’t even expect Facebook to become what it is today, someone was willing to invest thousands of dollars on his site and he was willing to take the risk.

I hope these habits are able to help someone out there.

Here’s to making the best of 2017!

If  you want to learn about finance, investments, entrepreneurship, go to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0yw3YyhtyFrPNrvyY1AOHw

 

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